Pro se litigants are expected to abide by the same rules of court as attorneys. That being said the court can at least keep a pro se litigant from being abused by either another pro se ltigant or an attorney. The evidence code is the evidence code, the rules of court are the rules of court and statutes are statutes. The court can not take sides or act as a lawyer for one side or the other. However, the court can treat those pro se litigants with respect and civility.